Office Romance Update

Hey guys!!! (more like Hey me!!!)

So a few weeks ago i wrote about the whole office romance thingy, here's an update.

I have zero regrets!!! :-)

This guy is simply the sweetest, most thoughtful, caring, forward thinking, focus minded, mouth full of sugar and honey person i've ever met. Did i mention earlier how hot he is? ;-)
 I am stoked to have ever met him, and i still cant really believe he found me attractive enough to even approach me and i think he loves me.

So all these wonderful things to say and im sure youre thinking... KIDNAP HIM and bear him a few kids right? well..... not so fast.

My only prayer is things go on fine and if we are meant to be, we will be.

STAGNATION

I have decided to treat this blog as my personal diary..... so here goes

Dear Diary,

Feeling like I'm in a rut! i have no specific direction in life as at the moment and I have no tangible love interest to keep my heads in the clouds.
I am very down to earth at the moment and its not a great feeling.
Feeling empty has to be the one of the worst situations one can ever feel.
I feel like i need to be loved and absolutely ignoring the world and focusing on self love is very hard to achieve.

So do i look for how to hone my skills and let my creative juices flow. i have to actually think of what i absolutely love doing so i dont feel so empty down the line.

I've kind of always had this feeling and i thought that once i get a love interest it'll all magically disappear but i have this strong intuition that all i need is something i love doing to keep me busy and i wont feel so needy and desperate and then fall into relationships without strong foundations which at the end of the day will fall out.

All I have is Jesus

and to my imaginary readers i'm very happy having you here.

Office Romance... to do or not to do

Hi guys,

So I'm currently undergoing this phase most young ladies go through when you just get employed in an office. You are unconsciously tagged the new girl and it becomes an adventure for everyone to make a new first impression on you and in turn feel a renewal in themselves, also as the new girl you get a lot of attention as well from the single men (and some not so single men).
I have always been of the opinion of not to poop where you eat, so i subconsciously already rule out any love interest creeping up in these four walls of the office.
However, there is this guy who has shown a lot of interest in me, and for the first time i'm thinking of maybe letting down the rules a bit, just to see where it goes.
Guys, i'm scared to death, what if this goes downsouth and i have my reputation to repair for the rest of my stay here, or what if it works and i have to deal with the awkwardness of having your love interest at work, what if it works out n starts ti get boring seeing his face everywhere in the office n after the office.
I'm just gonna keep going guys, ill update you all in future.


*pardon my writing skills, i believe I'll get better*

I'm Sorry

I apologise to myself and whoever in this big yet small world who has even left clicked the link to this blog.

I apologise to myself for letting real life experiences shut me down and believe no one would ever want to read or know anything that I've got to offer. I'm yet to make this blog public but at least something has been woken up inside of me.

I have been around this past years, furthered my education, fell out of love and the relationship (we all know how messy that can be most times), landed my first real job and currently dating! :D (not sure a grin is appropriate for the kind of guys i meet these days).

Anyways, this is my new year, my era of new beginnings, and I reckon to use this as a personal journal for me and strangers who relate to me, let's consider this a personal reminder that we are living and not just existing.

LES GO!!!

Yesterday, i went to a clearance sales bonanza and yes i have a weakness for shopping especially when its going for such cheap prices :D ok back to the topic... the owner of this shop is a very beautiful young girl. of course am not alienated to the fact that young people own and run empires but just when i was blabbing about my admiration for this young achiever, my friends gisted me of how she got married to a rich-old-white-man and has a son for him.
Of course as a normal Naija girl  i was so quick to jump into conclusions that this girl married the rich sucker for his money and knows he's gonna die soon anyways besides she can be having younger boyfriends for all i care. then again i thought to myself..... who am i to judge this young lady for decisions she has made, i mean i barely even know her. believe it or not i was disappointed in myself cuz am really not the type to judge (not intentionally anyways)
it is very possible that this girl is perfectly happy and in love with her husband, its also possible she wasnt broke b4 marying him. some people marry to compliment thier financial status. not like the younger men we have these dayz are of good behaviour. this old man must really shower her with so much affection and adoration that he mostly doesnt believe how lucky he was to have nailed this young lady. yes ladies do u prefer love from an old man datloves u to pieces or a young man that has to be shown so many times wat a true gem u are ;) 

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