very late post, drafted april 2011....... The struggle for relevance

hey people, I'm new to this, I'm just gonna be blogging for my sake now. cuz ladies lets face it. it's hard finding a man out there that can listen to you blab all you want.

ok let's talk about the ever present struggle for relevance, what is relevance? according to dictionary.reference.com, relevance is
bearing upon or connected with the matter in hand i.e to be needed for something by someone at sometime. we ladies wanna feel relevant, whether at work, at home, with a man, in a social gathering, in every aspect of our lives. am sure men have dis same feeling too. People dat feel irrelevant to the society tend to bend towards
   
Like it or not we all struggle for relevance, relevance at the place of work, relevance in your home, relevance to your significant other, relevance in the social scene

what would you do to remain relevant
have you had a strong sense of who you are to then give as a service to the world?

I want to be relevant
relevant to my family, my place of work, my husband 
but most of all  want to be relevant to me
when i am sad i want to be able to make myself happy
when i am down i want to raise myself up
all with the help of God anyways
when you fix you, you fix others, thereby relevance

here's to the end of relying on other people for my happiness, like i was spoiled b Mr E. 
here's to giving myself to help other feel good about themselves
here's to releasing my heart and freeing myself, giving myself permission to live.

So help me God